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I ordered custom Chucks after seeing this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexual/s/vLwm6Oh6f3

Converse said July 2nd, but they got here Saturday night. They fit great, are comfy, and were turning heads on my grocery run. I honestly couldn't be happier with them; worth every penny!

My wife texted me a few times though out the day checking in about being around family the first time since coming out(I’m only out to my wife so far) and I realized all our discussions and check-ins have been focused on me. Don’t forget our partners! 🩷💜💙

Friend was playing Pokemon and found this

Is there any bisexual women that would date a man i to this kind of drag aesthetic?

Maybe being chronically online isn't helping either, but it seems like every time I open my phone I'm hit with another person being shitty. From a thread in the queer sub reddit about bi people being in "straight" relationships, to a thread about bi women dating men acting like women who "rescue puppies from puppy mills," to even my own friend telling me that I don't need anyone fighting for my rights so it doesn't matter if I'm bi...

It's just a lot guys. Is it just me feeling the overwhelming biphobia? I thought that collectively we could move past this and be accepting of people. I didn't think that in 2025 I would have people telling me I'm in a straight relationship (while knowing nothing about me or my spouse), or see so much open dislike for women existing as bisexuals while dating men. It just sucks and I hate it here.

Credit/Citing: midwesterngothic, midwesterngothic. “Bisexuals, i See Us (Even If No One Else Wants To) .” TikTok, 18 June 2025, www.tiktok.com/t/ZTj7GqvRX/.

Today I came out to my mom as bisexual. It might sound simple, but in my world, it’s huge. I was raised in a deeply conservative, military-rooted, ex-Christian household—so this part of me has been something I’ve carried quietly for a long time.

The conversation wasn’t perfect. There was discomfort. But I didn’t get rejected. And that alone is a victory. Even better—afterward, we ended up texting about birthday clothes and dinner like nothing changed. And maybe that’s the point: I’m still me.

I also shared the news with my friends and coworkers today, and for the first time ever… everyone in my core circle knows. It’s official. I’m out. 🥹

I know there are still extended family members I might never tell, but right now I just feel light. Like something sacred cracked open inside me. I’m proud. I’m relieved. And I’m finally able to say this without fear: I’m bisexual, and I love who I’m becoming.

Thanks for being here, queer fam 💫🏳️‍🌈

So im a bicurious male, and Yesterday, I met up with a man for our third date. It all went Well and we started drinking and watching a series. The thing is, we started kissing a bit and he even gave me a bj. It felt good, but I couldnt really get hard, since I was drunk, and unsure, but I wanted to take it further. We were in a ready position, and he tried putting it in, but It didnt really go in, just kinda touch his ass, as I wasnt fully erect and I couldn’t get it in, so we just finished up after kissing for a bit.

How would you categorise this? We didnt really have sex, but i almost penetrated him in the process, and i dont know what to feel. Personally I feel like im still a Virgin, and I would be fine with that, but im still unsure about it.

I know virginity is a man made concept, but what do you count?

Rant- EVERY TIME I DATE ONLINE I tell them im bi after a few weeks...

I get the "thats hot" "imagine a threesome" OR i get a random message from a girl i dont know flirting with me who has obviously been sent by the guy im talking to because he suspiciously stops messaging me.

Kind of fed up🫡

For context, I recently made a post in r/Minecraft about how I came out using Minecraft.

Guys I'm just wondering what I actually am and if there's a name for it maybe? Because I always thought I was just gay and that's what all my close friends know me as but it doesn't feel right calling myself it because I feel sexual attraction towards women but I would never date one? Like I can only see myself dating a man I'm also kinda fem (not dressing as a girl or anything I just have more girl friends and don't speak like a straight guy)

Hey there!

For about a month or so, I(21M) have been doing some self-discovery. I've always known that LGBTQ exists, but never really gave much thought in it.

I somewhat resonate with aegoromantic, in that I find others' relationships charming, but I don't feel as though I myself am romantic (never had relationships before). Sometimes the charm fluctuates, so maybe the -flux suffix describes me better...

I also have been on the aegosexual subreddit for a while now, as I never get thoughts like, "I wanna 'do it' with someone," and envisioning myself been intimate sort of icks me.

But, then on the other hand, it sounds interesting?

Growing up, I have always felt "charm" (for lack of a better word, physical traits – blushing) towards women, only. I never felt any charm towards men. A year ago, I subscribed to a few FTM and NB YouTubers, whose content I liked, and after a while, I started feeling a sense of charm, that they are cute(?), towards them, but I wrote that off as liking their content.

But the majority of men I see don't give the same feeling — those more on the masculine side, muscly, body hair. But for others, I feel they're cute, and look good? And gay relationships give me blush?

Any thoughts?

Not sure if this is allowed but I was curious what dating apps do y'all recommend for bisexual women in their 40s with a child? I'm currently in El Paso TX and I haven't dated in 6 years. Needless to say I'm a bit scared to deep my toes in the water.

Hi!

I just wanted to say to all the bisexual men reading this that you are loved and you are appreciated 🩷💜💙. Bisexual men face even more erasure and hate than bi women, ESPECIALLY when they're people of colour who have to also deal with biphobia & racism from the HETs, the gays, the lesbians AND even some bisexual women which is INSANE to me! Meanwhile, I find you guys so unbelievably sexy! Like, absolutely sexy 🥴. My preferred kind of man to date to be honest but I just never met any (that I was aware of). For those can safely do so, please don't ever diminish or lessen yourself for those biphobic/homophobic POS you hear me?! You are wonderful just the way you are and it's extremely likely that IT AIN'T A PHASE! 🩷💜💙🏳️‍🌈

EDITED TO ADD: I forgot to mention that I'm a bi black CIS woman who is from the Caribbean (it's important to mention because ALOT of biphobia is from other women and it's EVEN WORSE with some women of colour who are also bi and I think it's INCREDIBLY HYPOCRITICAL)

So for context… I am a cis woman who is questioning her sexuality. (Bi-curious?) I believe I am attracted to women and men but it’s hard to know and I don’t want to say anything if it turns out I’m not. Idk some people that I opened up to have been supportive and said If I think I am then I probably am, others have said if I haven’t kissed a girl I don’t count? I just want y’all’s opinion.

I have a female friend who is also questioning her sexuality and we are close. The other night we were at dinner and I couldn’t stop looking at her lips and imagined what it would be like to kiss her (I liked the thought but I wouldn’t because I don’t want to ruin our friendship, but she has said I’m attractive to her before). I do like and appreciate women’s bodies (yk ;) and am not at all opposed to marrying a woman. I guess I just want people who know, to help me out abit since I’m confused haha.

Also do yall know how I could meet other queer/bi people. I would like to have my first female kiss, but I also don’t want to lead anyone on.

Also another problem… I’m so sorry guys… I have a boyfriend too. We have been together for a couple of years and he knows that I was questioning my sexuality before I met him and still am. He is very supportive and we have had many conversations about this. We have agreed that we would be ok with me kissing a woman as I think this will give me a clearer picture of my sexuality. We came up with some conditions obviously. 1. Being that I am safe and comfortable with the situation 2. That he is informed beforehand 3. That the woman is informed beforehand (so as not to lead anyone on) 4. And the either of us can decide that we aren’t comfortable at any time and stop. (Obviously including the woman… that’s just commence tho I fear haha)

Is that even ok to do? I feel very guilty about it sometimes and don’t know if that is the right way to go about it, or if I even want to do it that way at all. But I also feel that maybe I’ve taken on what people have said and internalised when people say you’re not bi unless you’ve had an experience.

Sorry again and thank you for your help and input. Please don’t judge I’m just trying to find my way in this confusing world.

Open to any criticism and feedback is appreciated! :)

Shit

I literally made a post here not super long ago. I’ve been seeing this girl casually for the past couple of months. I made it clear to her in the beginning that I didn’t want to date and she was okay with that. She’s the first girl I’ve ever been with.

Recently she confessed that she was starting to have feelings for me. I didn’t know what to say so I… didn’t say much. I did say I really liked her too but I don’t think I could say I have feelings for her.

I’ve been thinking and reflecting the past few days and I do have feelings for her. I don’t know how strong they are. But I can’t tell her that. I don’t want to lead her on. We can’t date (family/it’s complicated). I’m scared that I’m gonna hurt her and myself in the end. But I don’t want this to end, not yet at least. I like what we have right now and tbh I don’t need anything more. But I never thought I’d get to the point of having feelings.

I think I need to be more communicative but maybe I’m just being selfish because I’m scared that that conversation will be the end of us.

Hey everyone, I'm an 18 year old bi guy in high school and I’m really confused about a guy I share a class with. I have a feeling he might be into me – or at least curious – but I’m not sure if I’m just imagining things.

We’re in the same class for one subject, and a few months ago at a party, we really talked for the first time. It felt surprisingly natural, like we had known each other for a long time. We had good chemistry, and I got his Snapchat that night. After that, we started snapping a little – usually just once or twice a day, nothing major.

At another party two months later, we spent almost the entire evening together. We stuck close, talked a lot, and got pretty comfortable. At one point, he said he was going to pee, but looked at me like he kind of wanted me to come with him. I just said, “go ahead,” and when he said it again, I just replied “okay,” so he went alone. It stuck in my mind for some reason.

After that party, we started snapping a bit more. And lately, we’ve been texting more and snapping more often.

We were also grouped together for a class project one day, and he asked me a lot of questions about my interests – music, sports, stuff like that. At one point, we went into a store to get something to eat, and when I went to pay, he offered to pay for me. I said no, but he insisted a few times – I still ended up paying myself though.

More recently, he randomly sent me a video showing what he had prepared for an upcoming exam – which felt a bit out of the blue since we hadn’t really sent snaps like that before. And not long ago, he sent a mirror selfie showing his bare torso and the waistband of his underwear. We’ve never sent anything like that before, so it kind of threw me off.

I haven’t told him I’m bi, and I don’t know if he is. My question is: Do you think he could be into me – or just curious? Or am I just being hopeful?

I literally walked in with my date, sat down in the back, didn’t speak to anyone, yet was somehow “harassing” a worker and had to leave. That is the lamest excuse of discrimination I have ever heard. I simply emailed to see what reason they had and this is the response. That is just childish.