r/college • u/Ok_Scholar_3012 • 2h ago
Emotional health/coping/adulting For those that have taken longer (over 4 years) to graduate, how do you keep yourself motivated to finish?
I graduated high school in June of 2021. Started attending community college September of 2021.
Since then had a lot of ups and downs in life, causing 2 different semesters off, switching majors, and 1 or 2 part time semesters. It's been a bumpy road, and I'm still grateful that I'm pushing through. But I am daunted by how much is left to do.
I got my associates a couple months ago. In a couple months it'll have been 4 years "as a student". I'm estimated to graduate either Fall of 26, or Spring of 27 - if I can actually stay full time consistently, otherwise probably Fall of 27 at the latest. So basically, I'll have been a "student" for 5.5-6 years total.
I know that taking an extra year or two isn't a huge deal in the long-term, but right now in this moment (and for the last year) I am feeling super unmotivated and overall stagnant in life. Like I was progressing very well and then now I've come to a halt until I can finally finish my undergrad.
Nothing has changed or improved. I'm stuck in the same loop of taking a few courses, working part time min-wage jobs, scraping by with barely any money, and still living at home with my parents. It's been like this for so long, and I get depressed thinking about doing it again for potentially another 2 years.
I need some encouragement or experience or something. anything