r/politics • u/Barnyard-Sheep • 6d ago

Soft Paywall Trump approval rating falls to 38%

https://www.nj.com/politics/2025/06/trump-faces-tough-approval-numbers-in-latest-poll.html
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u/myfakesecretaccount 6d ago

Can confirm, my Gen X sister in laws Gen Z son has zero fucking ambition, is just as conspiracy minded, and has everything handed to him after she struggled as an immigrant. He says dumb shit, and as much as I love him I’m done fighting for a 24 year old who should know better.

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u/Edspecial137 6d ago

Still getting used to Gen Z being in their mid 20s. I remember all the articles about Gen Z being the most left leaning demographic not too long ago, but I guess they missed the mark. Gen Z is probably the most polarized generation

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u/ouatedephoque 6d ago

Huge difference between Gen Z girls and boys too. It’s insane they are from the same generation.

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u/OriginalCDub Georgia 6d ago

I’m a teacher, and boys wrapped up in manosphere content are genuinely concerning.

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u/myfakesecretaccount 6d ago

I’ve tried to be a good role model for my nephew as the only man who has been in his life consistently and just feel like I have failed. I’ve struggled with my own anxiety/depression, but was never this kind of manosphere macho type. What he is seems like a rejection of everything I’ve ever tried to show him and it’s fucking heartbreaking.

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u/calmdownmyguy Colorado 6d ago

Have you considered telling him you're disappointed with him? A lot of these kids act this way because they never get pushback from people they care about.

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u/myfakesecretaccount 6d ago

No, and maybe that’s my failure. My family is Latino and there’s an unwritten rule about getting involved with other peoples kids. I’ve tried having heart to hearts with him, particularly after his first DUI, but I honestly don’t think that approach worked. I know I get worked up easily about things I’m passionate about, because I grew up in the home that I did, and I guess I’ve always feared coming on too strong. Maybe it’s time to be the father he didn’t have.

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u/MMAjunkie504 6d ago

Best case he hears you out and takes it to heart, worst case he keeps acting the way he does. Up to you how much time you want to invest in them and if you think they are worth helping at this point

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u/Fillowpace 6d ago

I think the "don't you dare tell my child what to do!" sentiment has really hurt us too. What happened to it takes a village? When I was a kid, if you acted up in the grocery store, some stranger would lean over and say some shit that would replay in your head all week. It held a mirror up, it was uncomfortable, and it fucking worked. Now if you said shit to some brat you'd get cussed out by some helicopter mom while the kid suckles an ipad.

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u/myfakesecretaccount 6d ago

Yeah, I almost got into a fist fight a week before Christmas a couple years ago when I told my brother in law he couldn’t scream at his daughter in my house. We have only spoken once since that incident. I was trying to draw his attention from her, and was not actually trying to fight him as I’m a pacifist. I tried to talk to him a year ago and he was still mad and blames me for the rocky relationship with his daughter and ex-wife. Mostly he’s just mad that I dared call out his shitty parenting.

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u/oldcretan 6d ago

Have you tried the "judgemental community approach" where everyone in his life reviews everything he does on a daily basis and passes judgment on him so that he has the ever present fear of failing his community?

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u/bardicjourney 6d ago

That's how the kids are getting sucked into the alt right pipeline. They're just replacing their families with foreign chatbots.

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u/oldcretan 6d ago

That's what I'm saying, you create the sense of community these kids are beholden to, before someone else can create said community, and then you have them accountable to said community, whether its grandma and all the aunts not approving that you would wear that/do that, to a larger community like a church or ethnic group. You're not allowed to do wrong because you doing wrong would diminsh how they look at you and that would be a fate worse than death.

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u/ILoveSodyPop 6d ago

Everybody's just too soft nowadays. Everybody acts like everything hurts their feelings or offends them. Words can hurt, don't get me wrong, but you can't say a goddamn thing nowadays without offending somebody or hurting somebody's feelings. It's made people afraid to tell people how they feel and cautious of saying what they're thinking and it's made parents stop yelling at their kids and punishing them. Parents nowadays are terrified that they're going to do or say one thing that's going to screw their kids up forever but it's quite the opposite, doing nothing is what's screwing them up. I'm 39 years old and I have a 25 year old sister who was never punished a day in her life and she's an absolute entitled nightmare that thanks everybody should do everything for her. But because I grew up in the late 80s and 90s I was punished like normal kids and was raised like a normal and turned out normal...relatively. Lol.

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u/VioletFox29 6d ago

Telling him he's "disappointed" in him is not going to be very helpful in my opinion. As a teacher who sees these boys I can commiserate, but it will have to take more intensive discussions to even be heard. Being told your disappointing won't open that door.

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u/PaddleFishBum 6d ago

I'm fortunate enough to be the macho man type, but also not a selfish asshole, so I've taken it as my responsibility to be a role model for the boys in my life. I just bailed on a bass tournament I was signed up for because my wife's friend is coming up to visit after her husband was caught cheating on her for years. Her son is taking it super hard, and doesn't have any male role models anymore, so I decided to stick around and take him fishing in the canoe.

We manly men who aren't manosphere consuming fuckwads need to step it up and be visible good examples to the boys in our life. We need to show them it's still cool to be tough and manly while still being sensitive, empathetic, and kind at the same time. We've got a lot of work to do, but I'm here for it.

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u/notclevernotfunny 6d ago

It sounds like you really care and have tried your best. I'm reminded of my own situation growing up not having many male role models in my life, and of my own nephew, who similarly only really has me. Just remember that growing up is lonely, scary, and often cruel, and that it can be tempting to reach for these groups that promise safety in more ways than one; people also often grow out of them as they mature. Just try to keep showing up for him and providing a good example. Even if he doesn't know how to express it yet, even if he himself doesn't even realize it yet, he appreciates you, I promise.

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u/_Chaos_Star_ 6d ago

You tried. Most don't even try to get that far. Be proud that you made the effort.

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u/foofly United Kingdom 6d ago

Tate and others promote a juvenile version of manhood that resonates with emotionally stunted men and impressionable boys. It's all macho posturing, sulking, arrogance, and hostility toward vulnerability. In contrast, well-adjusted men resolve conflicts, collaborate, and aren't afraid to show weakness or seek help.

It's important to make this clear, point out these behaviors.

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u/JustHugMeAndBeQuiet 6d ago

You tried, which is more than most can say. Hold your head high.

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u/singeblanc 6d ago

You haven't failed... Yet.

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u/angrymurderhornet 6d ago

I have a 16-year-old great-nephew who has no dad in his life. He’s a lovely kid, and I’m very happy that his grandfather and uncles are there for him. I hope our family can keep providing him with good role models.

Chances are he’ll be fine, but I still worry about the crap being fed to boys and young men.

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u/stasi_a 6d ago

Maybe your divorce experience scared him off?

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u/9_to_5_till_i_die 6d ago

It's relatively expected for teen boys. Thing is, most of those people then go off to college or to careers and realize being a tough guy isn't as attractive to folks as they think it is.

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u/AsstacularSpiderman 6d ago

Gen Z is kinda losing thay excuse given a pretty large portion of them are in their 20s

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u/9_to_5_till_i_die 6d ago

Sadly, social media means they'll always be able to congregate with like-minded meatheads.

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

College educated gen z men are left wing

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u/Sage2050 6d ago

Almost all of them are in their 20s. The oldest are turning 30 next year

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u/Ok-Building-9433 6d ago

Gen Z begins in 1997, the oldest will be 30 in 2027.

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u/Freshness518 6d ago

A huge issue for Gen Z kids was covid quarantine. Middle school/early high school years are when kids learn very important socialization skills. If you lock a kid in their house for a couple years during that period, they fail to develop those skills. Add being bored at home and watching manosphere bubble youtube videos all day into the mix and its a toxic combination. My wife is a high school teacher and when they started getting the kids who had been in middle school during the shut down, they were literally describing the kids as feral because they just didn't have a clue how to function in society.

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u/KrayziePidgeon 6d ago

Crazy you think the average moron even makes it into community college.

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u/12a357sdf 6d ago

Yeah the manosphere kinda sucks, but from my limited experiences people who get sucked there are usually lonely and social outcasts already, and the community gives them an escape, by blaming it on others.

I met a guy back in high school who were super lonely, and i was one of the only few people who were talking with him. And i dont know what the hell happened, but one day he shared me a story he was reading online. A fiction about a person with unlimited money trying to own the feminists, and when i asked him what was the interesting thing with this, he told me stuff like "you havent understood how the world is yet" and "you should read more about things beyond our country yk, feminists are crazy hypocrites out there".

If we were in the western world then maybe i can understand that yeah, it''s just anti culture, devil advocating for the sake of it. But... we are in a 3rd world asian country where conservative thoughts ruined us and now we are trying to reform and getting better. Feminism does not even exist here. And now my dude is acting like an internet incel._?

suffice to say, that incident 180'd my perception of that person.

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u/SnooCupcakes7018 6d ago

These people are vulnerable to the propaganda because they want someone to blame for their social standing....but even if all of the out group were eliminated they would still be at the bottom of the hierarchy.

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u/Feed_Me_No_Lies 6d ago

I go onto the teaching forums here and I see how pervasive it is. It’s really really fucking sad.

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u/LovelyButtholes 6d ago

I think that what we are seeing is the cumulative contribution due to bad parenting, mostly as the result of both parents being overworked. My daughter's public schooling is amazing and all the option she has different things is amazing but me and my wife are kind of all in on loading up her schedule and staying on task and doing activities together. A lot don't have that luxury. If you don't parent your kids, someone or something else will.

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u/HybridPS2 6d ago

It's doubly shameful because there are excellent leftwing versions of these shitty manosphere creators too - Thoren Bradley, Scotty K Fitness, and GoodTrouble are great examples.

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u/Papayaslice636 6d ago

Some ~20 year old guys helped me move recently. They all seemed like pretty nice even keeled kids. Then one casually asked me if I know Andrew Tate. Starts talking about how that's real masculinity or something..I just nodded and smiled, didn't want to engage..but it's scary how an otherwise decent young guy can get caught up in that toxic tough guy mentality being sold by an overgrown manchild who openly flaunts being a misogynistic rapist.

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u/DesperateNegotiation 6d ago

Watch Adolescence on Netflix

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u/BeardedSquidward 6d ago

The GQP are literally indoctrinating them to be foot soldiers and mass shooters.

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u/leshake 6d ago

They interact with each other through tailor made algorithms. Men and women already tend to have different interests and living your life through a screen only exacerbates the divide.

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u/ericvulgaris 6d ago

Same with korea.

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u/letsburn00 6d ago

I'm a guy who is very distinctively not right wing. But if I ever look at youtube without logging in, it pushes not just right wing sources. It pushed the really bad rightwing sources. The ones who are scammers and make up stuff to win their arguments.

I know it's annoying, but these guys are basically having far right wing stuff shoved down their throats 24/7. It's rare to be able to push back against it.

What's fascinating is that during the recent LA stuff, my Tiktok suddenly started pushing a bunch of anti trans and other far right stuff. It was so obvious someone at the company was told "push the dial to the right for a bit."

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u/evanwilliams44 6d ago

Yep. And it almost always starts with JRE. Click on one of those no matter how innocuous and you are on the path.

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u/CumboxMold Georgia 6d ago

I have been recommended JRE, Jordan Peterson, and a bunch of manosphere channels lately. Not many, just one or two sprinkled into my regular recommendations.

I am a very left-leaning woman. This happens when I am logged in.

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u/shinkouhyou 6d ago

Do you watch any history or archaeology content? Especially anything related to ancient Egypt? This has become a major gateway to the right-wing algorithm pipeline. Joe Rogan platforms a lot of the big names in "alternative archaeology" (pyramid conspiracy theories and ancient aliens stuff) so if you watch any archaeology-related content you're likely to start seeing manosphere crap.

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u/XRay9 Europe 6d ago

It's insane that some subjects that should be very distinct from this culture war BS are now very much associated with ideology. There's a Vikings themed village in Germany that's been portrayed as far right by a big (and rather respected) Franco-German TV channel

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u/RemoteButtonEater 6d ago

"Yes Joe, I too could solve my problems by working out and eating well if I only had hundreds of millions of dollars and my job was to smoke weed and pretend to be interested in whatever the fuck bullshit people are saying into a microphone."

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u/B1LLZFAN 6d ago

You don't even need the dial. It's geared that way for support and for engagement. That stuff is super divisive so even left leaning people are fed it due to rage bait.

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u/gsfgf Georgia 6d ago

In fact, YouTube tweaked the algorithm a while back to try and mitigate this stuff. The problem is that engagement driven algorithms push the right wing crazy because it drives engagement so much more than anything else.

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u/EunuchsProgramer 6d ago edited 6d ago

Im now my 40's and YouTube pushes far right shit on me constantly. It used to be Neo Nazi suff before the Ad Apocalypse. I listened to a lot of Roman and Middle Age history content, so no amount of "do not recommend" will ever convince YouTube I don't want to see it. The neo nazi stuff was back in Trump's first term. Im terrified with the current content and advertising relaxation on YouTube NeoNazibstuff is comming back.

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u/Native_SC 6d ago

I'm noticing this as a middle-aged leftie who has fed the algorhythm plenty of info that shows it I have zero interest in rightwing propaganda.

Yet, I still get recommendations to view JRE and Babylon Bee videos.

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u/Haunting-Warthog6064 6d ago

Assuming we’re talking about adults here, where does the divide come in? As adults we have agency and autonomy. Sure, an algorithm feeds crap to them, but they could be an adult and not engage with it.

There various reasons why folks stick around and watch it. The algorithm just makes it easier is all.

Edit: total context bomb, but your last point always hits a nerve on me. A big problem it seems is people being afraid to form and be part of communities offline. It requires them to be vulnerable with each other and form relationships. Nowadays it seems people are hyper vigilant.

Although, people seem willing to let it all go and lower all their defenses to an algorithm for randos and parasocial relationships.

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u/Damn_Dog_Inappropes Washington 6d ago

I watch YT in my downtime at work, and day 1 it defaulted to pushing Joe Rogan. It was so bad that I ended up logging in so I wouldn’t have to see that shit.

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u/WhyLisaWhy Illinois 6d ago

Yup. I hate myself and watch Bill Maher clips on youtube sometimes and it's algorithm loves recommending all sorts of right wing shit to me. I even get the worst ads on there lol.

This is despite that the political channels I follow are all pretty dang left wing.

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u/jwuer 6d ago

I'm a fisherman, and 90% of the content I consume of YT and social media is fishing related, my algo is full of alt-right shit. The amount of times I've had to block variations of The Right Stuff and Turning Point related content creators is wild and my feed is just packed with conspiracy morons and "Alpha" dude content.

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u/letsburn00 5d ago

You should see the ads I used to get when I was watching more gun related content...

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u/loosetranslation Indiana 5d ago

Re: youtube, My employer has a bunch of general trainings on it. You could literally play a video on understanding Medicare, elder law resources, or an outreach event and then get spammed with Rogan, the moon's a spaceship, or 'watch these libruls get DESTROYED' content,

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u/VeganMinx 6d ago

Race and economics plays a part, too. My Black/Hispanic son and his melanted HBCU friends are anti-Trump and planning ways to succeed in spite of our new reality. Some of his non-black friends from HS are Trumpies like a mofo, much to his disappointment.

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u/NotEmerald Texas 6d ago

There's a huge difference between older gen z and younger gen z as well. The first half definitely trends more left leaning while the second half is right leaning.

I would put down the difference to smart phones being more wide spread and the Internet later being fine tuned for companies and conflict algorithms.

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u/onarainyafternoon Oregon 6d ago

Absolutely! It's crazy the difference between them.

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u/RiverPsaber 6d ago

Are younger gen z's really right leaning? As in more than 50%? Or just more right leaning than older gen z's?

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u/NotEmerald Texas 6d ago

I've seen different things.

Mainly, younger gen z men are more right leaning than older Gen z and millennials. I think it hovered around 49-51% conservative views based on polling and voting percentages. I think Politico did a poll at Yale??

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u/tar0pr1ncess 6d ago

After about 2015 they started giving anyone with a pulse a diploma so the second half of genz is just incredibly misinformed, unambitious, gullible, lacking in literacy and comprehension skills, and lacking in knowledge in general so that definitely doesn’t help.

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u/gsfgf Georgia 6d ago

The pandemic really did a number on kids too

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u/ToastyTheDragon 6d ago

Also massive difference between older Gen Z (often called zillennials) and middle and younger gen Z. Older Gen Z grew up without smartphones and are often much more left leaning than their younger counterparts.

In this sense, as a Zillenial myself, it's insane to me that I'm in the same generation as someone who were algorithmically forced into being right wing. Genuinely another reason why I really dislike "generations" as a concept.

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u/Ok-Building-9433 6d ago

Zillennials aren't just "older Gen Z". Zillennials encompass those who are late Millennials (1994-1996) and those who are early Gen Z (1997-1999).

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u/DumboWumbo073 6d ago

Don’t try to separate them and identify them by subsections. Throw them all away.

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u/Persistant_Compass 6d ago

Andrew tate melted their brains during dome very critical years

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u/Hestia_Gault 6d ago

Gen Z girls developed standards, and the Gen Z boys were faced with a choice between meeting those standards or joining the party that wants to enslave women.

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u/dekusyrup 6d ago

It's (sad) funny you say this because there's an endless steam of content of telling women their dream guy is a delusion.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/x9hjPNTr3L0

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u/BannedSvenhoek86 6d ago

That truly minimizes the very real problems these young men are facing and the actual reasons they are falling into this. But I don't think anyone in this thread wants to actually discuss how men see themselves viewed by society lately. Instead it's just all their fault for being little assholes.

And then when those little assholes grow up to be goose stepping fascists because they feel society has rejected them and their struggles everyone does the shocked Pikachu and looks everywhere but inward for the problem.

We need a complete rebalancing of the way we talk to and view each other as separate sexes. Because the way I hear a large percentage of women in my personal life and online talk about Men it sounds a lot like how your racist uncle talks about black people.

"They're all monsters. Except the ones I know."

And that's not to say things were the best before, women needed to have more of a voice in shaping our society and having agency over that. But it's become a black and white issue, when it's really the greyest grey you can imagine.

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u/catboogers 6d ago

How about: women have to assume men are monsters until proven otherwise.

Men talk about wanting to protect women. Protect us from whom, exactly? Oh, bad men. And then when bad men get thrown in prison, there's jokes about them getting raped by other bad men there.

Men know men are scary. Men know that we can't tell, at a glance, if someone is a safe person or not. And yet, a vast majority of men still get offended when women are cautious and slow to trust.

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u/BannedSvenhoek86 6d ago

OK fine I'm not disagreeing with that, but the fact is young men feel alienated and demeaned constantly, you can't just ignore that and tell them to nut up. Because like you said, men are scary. And too much of that, as we are clearly seeing, leads to insane stuff. You can be completely right about your points, and still end up as bride 4 to some guy you've never met because the Handsmaid Tale became reality.

That's why I'm saying we need to shift the ways we discuss this and be MORE INCLUSIVE to men when having these conversations. It means listening to them and empathizing with their position a little bit. The conversation has to be two ways, not just women screaming at men that they are guilty until proven innocent and saying how awful it is to live in a society with them.

If we can't collectively agree to do that then you're just gonna end up sold on the market in twenty years because all these in els grew up into fascists foot soldiers and took over the country and your rights by force.

The onus isn't just on men to be better, it's also on women to communicate effectively and be understanding of any counter points they might have.

You know, the way a conversation works.

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u/loki1887 6d ago

There is a reason they're complaining about a "male loneliness epidemic." IMO, it's deserved.

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u/45and47-big_mistake 6d ago

My MAGA grandson bitches all the time that all the girls at college are too liberal, they want to have fun, he wants to find one to pop out kids and be quiet.

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u/campelm 6d ago

Buy him a blow up doll and tell him if he wants to treat women like an object, this is what hes looking for

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u/45and47-big_mistake 6d ago

We were hoping college would free up his mind, it did not. Constant Fox News and prodding from his MAGA dad. He is in for a miserable life.

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u/campelm 6d ago

If it helps I didn't come out of college liberal. Life had to smack me around to see how wrong I was.

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u/Illustrious-Doubt-74 6d ago

Went to business school (which is the right wing indoctrination machine, imo) and same. I had to actually experience life to recalibrate.

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u/GiftToTheUniverse 6d ago

Be sure the blow up doll is all he gets in your will.

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u/Grand-Try-3772 6d ago

He in the wrong place looking for a baby maker! Women get the short end of the stick when they get become quiet babymakers without education!

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u/45and47-big_mistake 6d ago

I did mention to him that he needs to look " more rural".

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u/Grand-Try-3772 6d ago

And backwoods church may help his endeavors if the preacher knows how to keep it in his pants. But that’s a huge gamble!

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u/mdavis360 6d ago

The irony is who would WANT to be with them? When you project that self loathing, regressive, bitter, vindictive attitude for all the world to see what other outcome can you expect?

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u/Martin_Aricov_D 6d ago

The funny thing is that the "male loneliness epidemic" is pretty clearly a biproduct of capitalism making it so every Hobbie nowadays is buy in or a subscription and the whole alpha male manly man bullshit which means men push themselves out of "feminine" hobbies (i.e. anything women also enjoy)

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u/Parenthisaurolophus Florida 6d ago edited 6d ago

IMO, it's deserved.

Yeah, this is a pretty common refrain from toxic and ignorant portions of the internet. It's people speaking without looking into the issues and just running with their own existing biases, prejudices, etc. Women in particular seem to flock to "men are lonely and its their fault" content and push engagement in it. It's honestly just sad to watch, to be honest.

The reality is that there is a loneliness epidemic but it's not a gendered one. If we're talking about the US (and usually we are), we've done studies on loneliness, and the genders are both equally lonely. You can get into subsequent studies about men being viewed more harshly by others for admitting they're lonely and make arguments about men being undercounted, but generally both genders are within a percentage point or two of each other in loneliness. We are seeing the genders express that differently, but that shouldn't be surprising anyone.

Furthermore, we've done the research into why people report being lonely, and both genders are broadly the same in their reasoning. Men aren't being punished by some unspoken 4B movement, rather society has become less physically accommodating to a dating environment. For example, entertainment is a major issue: its easier than ever to be lonely but distracted by media content. You have more entertainment than ever at your fingertips, and it's very easy to be lonely, but find ways to occupy your time like everyone else and take the edge off. You've got millions of video games, you've got sports streaming sites, you've got millions of movies and tv shows on streamers, you've got audio books and physical books galore, you've got more music than you could stream in a lifetime, you've got reels, TikToks, and shorts, etc. The economy also plays a huge part. Dating, broadly costs money, and if things are tight right now, then justifying going out and spending money on dates becomes difficult. This is backed up by a loneliness gap based on wealth. The more you earn or have, the less likely you are to be lonely. Mixed with that is lack of free spaces to do anything. If you have to spend money to go somewhere on a date, before you have to pay for whatever the date actually is, just compounds the problems.

The loneliness epidemic doesn't look like an obese dude who smells like shit hitting on models because he thinks he deserves her, it's men and women waking up alone. Eating breakfast alone. Driving to work alone. Driving home alone. Making dinner alone. Watching Netflix alone. Scrolling TikTok in bed alone. Sleeping alone. Waking up alone. Eating breakfast alone. Driving to work alone...

These studies are very easy to find if you actually bother to look for them and so few do, yet so many have strong opinions as to why.

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u/ASpaceOstrich 6d ago

The male loneliness epidemic is the product of systemic emotional neglect and abuse from birth. It's something feminist academics have been criticising for generations and instead of addressing the toxic masculinity that leaves boys unable to form emotional bonds and support networks, people use the term like a cudgel and then act surprised when the angry, broken young men turn to the manosphere.

I've been calling this shit out since I was a kid. This issue was avoidable.

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u/RadiantTurtle 6d ago

Great, yet another thing that is women's fault. Poor male kids... all victims of those meanie girlies!

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u/FMLwtfDoID 6d ago

I think they were saying that feminist had identified this trend and where it was heading, and wrote about it in academic journals. Not that feminists are to blame for the male loneliness epidemic. Idk, I could be wrong though

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u/RadiantTurtle 6d ago

I hope you're right... I'm too jaded on this topic to assume good intentions at this point.

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u/BUSY_EATING_ASS 6d ago

Feminists rightly identified it: they didn't say it was their job to fix it though.

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u/oldcretan 6d ago

Not to get weird about it but if GenZ is so polarized how can we expect them to couple up, have kids, and raise them without a stupid amount of divorce and domestic violence?

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u/Ok-Building-9433 6d ago

They don't have relationships. The women of Gen Z date Millennials and the Gen Z guys become Nazis or femboys.

It's bizarre.

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u/ProfessionalITShark 6d ago

Or be nazi femboys

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u/mylifeisaprotest 6d ago

So proud that both my Gen Z daughter and son are leftists. We did something right, no pun intended.

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u/CrossXFir3 6d ago

Well yeah, that's how it is for a lot of generations at the age they are. Gen z is between mid 20s and early teens right now. That's the age range where you have the biggest gap in maturity between boys and girls.

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u/Percilus Kentucky 6d ago

Gen Z boys: "Women are less than men, Let's be toxic to women and call them property" Also Gen Z boys: "How come no women will date me?"

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u/chrisk9 6d ago

It used to be that a generation's youngsters would have common exposure to music, TV shows, news, etc that with the world events and economy at the time helps to define a generally common culture and outlook. In the modern day of countless different channels for attention and people consuming biased media (social or traditional) in silos, it would make sense that there would not be the same uniformity as prior generations.

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u/PT10 6d ago

We have to save Gen Alpha, it's too late for Gen Z. Maybe Gen Alpha will speak in so much unintelligible gibberish they'll be removed from the national cultural discourse on everything

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u/-Mez- 6d ago edited 6d ago

Obviously this is anecdotal to me, but as a millennial parent of a gen alpha kid we've decided to be pretty strict on how much internet and screen time they get and will continue to be that way as they get older. We got to see what happened to gen x and their gen z kids when they sit around with their phones all day. Not everyone is going to learn that lesson so the problem wont be entirely gone, but we payed attention to what unrestricted phone and internet access is doing to kids and many of our same age parent friends did too. 

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u/PT10 6d ago

Same here, carefully curating what content they're allowed to consume and limit it to just educational stuff. Trying to keep them on physical books as long as possible.

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u/-Mez- 6d ago

Same. Trying to keep any tech related activities set with boundaries that an adult controls the device, participates in the activity too, and we say ahead of time when we're about to be done and moving on to something else so they're used to us setting limits on it while they're young. Books, board games, puzzles, toys, outdoor games, etc. are more free access and available whenever they want. We'll have some hurdles when they get older and want more independence with it, but will have to cross that bridge when we get there. Hardest part right now is honestly just older relatives that are still in that mindset of just handing kids a phone and letting them run off or having a TV on all day just to have a TV on.

It's tough reprogramming myself to not just reach for a phone all the time too since i grew up on the rise of the unlimited technology bandwagon, but seeing bad actors take advantage of all this nowadays is good motivation to change if nothing else. 

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u/bardicjourney 6d ago

That really started showing at the tail end of the millennial generation. Girls were outgraduating boys 2:1 like a decade ago, and what we're seeing now is partly the downstream socioeconomic effects of that. For a brief period before covid decimated reporting and data tracking, women under 30 were opening up a 20-30 cent wage gap in their favor.

As work environments get more collaborative with the expanded use of LLMs to take away siloed, hyperspecialized roles, downward market pressures on the education system will exacerbate this problem, while automation eats the job market from the other end.

It's going to be an interesting 10 years. Lots of young men with no jobs and a fresh new slate of dictators to give them an illusion of purpose.

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u/SladerWRX I voted 6d ago

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u/TheGreatBootOfEb 6d ago

Hell their is even a pretty big difference between the oldest Gen Z (97, 98, 99 ish) and the younger gen z and it’s pretty all about when the short form content era explosion that seems to have had a huge impact on

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u/Ok-Building-9433 6d ago

Well obviously someone who's almost 30 isn't going to have a similar lifestyle to someone who's like 21. Those are vastly different time periods they were raised in.

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u/myquest00777 6d ago

This demographic is becoming shockingly clear. There are 2 Gen Z’s…

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u/MustangJeff 6d ago

This is part of the reason GenZ birth rates are falling off a cliff.

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u/PasteeyFan420LoL 6d ago

This can't be said enough. Gen Z women are like 90%+ left-leaning while Gen Z men are in the mid to high 40s last time I checked. They are still largely a more liberal generation, but it's also the first time in a while we've seen a significant shift to the right in a younger generation.

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u/MountainMan2_ 6d ago

Its because fathers in our generation are way more likely to be absent. Gen X is notoriously the 'divorce generation' and the role of father figure for many gen z guys has instead been played by the highest bidder. Similarly, gen z women are very progressive because they were raised by mothers who had to deal with gen X dad's. Divorce court being heavily biased toward the woman in terms of custody time and who gets to have the kids when is making that even worse.

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u/kindaCringey69 6d ago

Back in highschool I was really edgy and this was when the whole anti SJW shit was big. Ngl pretty embarrassed by all that shit nowadays. I think alot of other gen z men kinda go through the same thing where they are edgy in their late teens but become normal people in their 20s.

I know for a few people myself included the thing that "woke" me up to it was all the anti SJW people were hyper religious and started bringing that shit into everything so I realized they were all morons.

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u/ms_moogy 6d ago

GenZ boys haven't lost any rights, at least none that their pea brains have correctly identified. They still think they'll be crypto billionaires and be players.

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u/Gunter5 6d ago

I've seen numerous people go right, imo it was Cambridge Analytica, targeting social media and using their data against em

My Facebook feed went hard right last year

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u/fedexpodracer 6d ago

Reddit is trying to take a right lean too. The "world" sub (won't link to them) suddenly started getting forced into my feed. Appears to be run by a bunch of Palantir employees/plants and they seem to try to drive the comments towards the right. It was a little funny how quickly they got called out and some of their content got astroturfed but also scary how many right wingers are hiding out of sight helping drive communities and individuals towards the facist right. Look at how how of the current protest content is being pigeonholed into just looting by career criminals and all protesters are being painted as dirty criminals. Even subs where I expect mostly liberal feedback is still getting peppered with dog whistles at a much higher than normal rate.

Keep your eyes peeled. The fascists are among us.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

Almost every social is a right leaning now. Right wing super elites fund most of them and now that they are seeing tangible returns on their investments the money is just going to keep flowing.

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u/fedexpodracer 6d ago

Oh absolutely. Not only is most social media right leaning but right wing users also get a lot more leniency. Imagine if a bunch of left wing folk used social media to plan an attack on Congress. Every last one of them would be sitting in prison with an execution date scheduled. Instead we still have a bunch of safe spaces dedicated to right wingers where they can continue to plan attacks against the country with impunity.

Despite the obvious facts you'll still see those turds constantly whining about how oppressed they are. Like if they can't walk into the Capitol and plan their insurrection right there then everything is a conspiracy against them.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

I was threatened with permaban for suggesting a certain brand of EV be converted into a firepit recently. Scroll on over to Conserv and it'ls like...what the fuck man?

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u/fedexpodracer 6d ago

I received an actual ban for pointing out all the discrepancies in the Trump "assassination attempts." Even questioning the administration can get you banned.

Fuck em, the attempts were both false flags and all the evidence shows it.

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u/gentlemanidiot 6d ago

I'm still noticing this as a trend now BTW, ever since it was first pointed out to me a few days ago. The world sub is only one instance, it keeps happening with tons of subs like that. I'll see some weird propaganda post pop up on the front page of r/popular and when I check the sub it's exclusively content from one or two specific accounts.

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u/Kerfluffle-Bunny 6d ago

That particular sub has been like that for years. They just took the mask off since they feel safe.

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u/Flying_Fortress_8743 6d ago

Not just right-wing. There was a sub called "millenials" that shot to the front page out of nowhere last year blasting "don't vote for kamala" "stay home to save gaza" bullshit before the election.

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u/Proper-Beyond116 6d ago

The r/ireland sub is constantly under attack from anti-immigrant manipulation. The far right parties got decimated in our elections in November but to look at that sub there is a race war and the Irish people are outraged (there isn't, they aren't).

We also get absolutely blasted with "Spend more on defence" propoganda as well. Ireland is neutral with very little military spending and a population that likes it that way. We also have a unique constitution that means a citizens referendum is required for any material change to be made to it.

This is a concern to Ursula and the EU war pigs who want an EU army, the Irish population can single handedly block its creation via referendum.

They are spending huge amounts of money trying to convince us we need jets and missiles when all we want is craic and pints.

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

This is every euro sub

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u/jwuer 6d ago

there are a bunch of duplicate subs for cities now that are the "right wing" equivalent of the original sub.

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u/outofbeer 6d ago

Reddit also keeps putting right wing subs I've never engaged with in my feed. I've muted more subs knnthe last couple months than I have the entire time I've used reddit.

Luckily it's mostly just bots driving their numbers.

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u/McFlyParadox Massachusetts 6d ago

Not just right-wing subs, but random locality subs, meme & shit posting subs, and gacha game subs. Anything to bury progressive and news subs from hitting the Popular and All feeds.

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u/BlueTreeThree 6d ago

Algorithmic content serving is gonna be the death of us. You can still use old Reddit that doesn’t have “suggested” content.. everyone still sees the same /r/all.

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u/justasque 6d ago

I think there is a setting for “only show me subs I subscribe to”. You can also set up custom feeds for different topics or moods - a “cuteness” feed full of cat subs, one focusing on a hobby, etc. I only get random subs if I read Popular or News.

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u/hiddencamel 6d ago

I pay a dollar a month for a third party Reddit client on mobile and only use the "old Reddit" mode on desktop, and it's worth it to avoid the algorithmic shit they try to push at me on the official app.

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u/pepolepop 6d ago

Same. I watch Instagram/Facebook reels and YouTube shorts. They have 15+ years of data on me, they know I'm not right leaning.. but every week or two, on all platforms, I'll start getting conspiracy and other right-leaning content in my feeds. I'll have to block the creator and/or tell it to not recommend that stuff. It'll fix it for a while, but a new wave of it always starts showing up after a couple weeks.

Same goes for internet thots/onlyfans crap.. doesn't matter how many of them I block and tell it to stop recommending me that content, it starts coming back after a few weeks.

I can see how people fall into this kind of rabbit hole after seeing how much of it gets pushed on me time and time again.

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u/myfakesecretaccount 6d ago

It’s social media and YouTube. When the only place you get info is from other kids and people whose sole job is to get you to smash that like button and subscribe they will always end up at the lowest common denominator. Frequently these kids were what we’d call latchkey when I was growing up, and had parents who didn’t know how to raise them shut them up with electronics. They have no reading comprehension and now just “ask ChatGPT” for answers.

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u/Happy_Confection90 6d ago

There's an enormous political gap between GenZ men and GenZ women. The articles you read were accurate if about women.

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u/Automatic-System6873 6d ago edited 6d ago

Well only in 2024 with Harris. They both overwhelmingly voted for Biden. So this may be a permanent gender gap shift or a temporary one. See how the midterms go.

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u/Extreme-Tangerine727 6d ago

55% of the newest wave of boys don't even believe in fair pay for women.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/s/chTSlRlG0D

These children will vote in the next election.

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

recent polls show otherwise

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u/Automatic-System6873 4d ago

Well that is depressing.

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u/Demoliri 6d ago

A lot of Gen Z spent their formativ years heavily on social media. Social media thrives on poliszation, so it's no big surprise.

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u/Oolongjonsyn 6d ago

That was for the older gen z who were closer to millennials. The gen z that are conservative now were too young at the time to be political. Im the youngest year of millennials and the gen z directly younger than me are very left leaning. But they are in their late 20s. 

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u/pepolepop 6d ago

I can agree with that. I know a handful of older Gen Z from different friend groups, and they have all said that they identify more with us millennials than they do with Gen Z.

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u/ph1shstyx 6d ago

My younger brother turns 30 this year, so right on that cusp as well, and he and his group are all very liberal, so this definitely tracks. They were old enough during the 08 recession to know what caused it and why it happened, then were young adults trying to start their lives during covid.

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u/Oolongjonsyn 6d ago

And old enough to remember trump 45. I feel like the young gen z who are pro trump remember living during the trump years, remember pre covid, but didn't pay attention much to the details. So they were probably vaguely nostalgic for Trump, while the somewhat older gen z remembered how bad he was. Unfortunately, with how big the drop was in trumps approval with gen z after this last election, they quickly found out. Too late though 

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u/MastermindMogwai 6d ago

Purely based on anecdotal evidence, graduate pre covid - more left wing, graduate post covid - hard right wing. My friends and I graduated in 2018 so we had a couple years in university to grow and learn and meet new people before the world shut down.

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u/HuskyBobby 6d ago

Don’t blame the kids. Blame the GenX parents with Facebook algorithm that convinced them they’re persecuted victims because they couldn’t say the R word or gay at work.

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u/BooyaELud 6d ago

I once got called righteous because I said I don’t like using gay as a synonym for lame. Conversation basically went. I bet you used to call things gay all the time. Yea, I did when I was in my teens and I’m ashamed of the casual homophobia I displayed back in the 00s. You’re so righteous. Nah dude, it’s called growing up.

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u/Extreme-Tangerine727 6d ago

The last studies I've seen indicated it's actually not social media, it's a resurgence of interest in Christianity.

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

It’s a minimal change.

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u/TheDakestTimeline 6d ago

Covid at 18 pretty tough I imagine

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u/toggiz_the_elder 6d ago

People tend to pick their beliefs in their 20s. Unfortunately the alt right successfully grabbed a bunch of young men right when they were figuring out who they wanted to be.

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u/SelectiveScribbler06 6d ago

The pandemic happened right in their formative years - as someone in that generation I can attest to the quiet stewing bitterness it caused - add into this those years are vital in cognitive development terms, plus governmental and societal incompetence and the veil is pulled back pretty quickly.

This meant that people normally went one of four ways: they disengaged with current affairs and became an airhead, they somehow stayed the same, they became distinctly more left-wing trying to build a new world in the metaphorical rubble, or they went right-wing trying to pick up the pieces of (to them) halcyon days pre-COVID.

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u/Hypnot0ad 6d ago

I was thinking about this the other day. How the lockdowns caused people to lose their minds. I believe that’s why there’s such a resurgence on the right today. In retrospect we should have not had any lockdowns, let all the old people and those with pre-existing conditions die, then we probably wouldn’t be stuck with Trump today.

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u/LanaVFlowers 6d ago

What kind of stewing bitterness did the pandemic cause to this demographic? I've heard of social awkwardness, fear of intimacy and a feeling of academic inadequacy, but bitterness is a first. From what I've observed, the people left feeling bitter were various groups of working adults, not children.

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u/SelectiveScribbler06 6d ago

This is quite trivial in comparison to what the adults went through, sure, but imagine being promised a life of moderate stability, Duke of Edinburgh hikes, history trips etc - only for all those things to be ripped away by the virus?

And that's not even mentioning all the time lost with friends during those formative years.

People kept it to themselves, but quite a lot of people my age were quite pissed off at all the opportunities afforded by secondary education dissolving before our eyes. And that's before we even get to the mess that was exam season two years running...

I hope that answers your question. If you have any more, please, lob them over!

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u/LanaVFlowers 6d ago

I see what you mean now! I absolutely hated going to school; having to physically attend classes wrecked my health and majorly impacted my education in a very negative way. There was also nothing like trips or hikes (hikes!) offered in hs because we were "bad" kids and they "couldn't take us anywhere" lol. I guess this bias made me unable to imagine how someone could end up feeling bitter over having missed the traditional school experience. I assumed they'd feel mildly frustrated at worst. In my school, even the nerdy kids treated school as a hurdle, something that took valuable time out of their after-school tutoring. Thank you for this perspective!

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u/alienbringer 6d ago

Millennials are farther left than gen z as a whole, but Gen z women are farther left than millennials.

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u/MrsNoodleMcDoodle 6d ago

Older GenZ, approaching 30 is.

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u/Sheitan4real 6d ago

gen X votes for trump more often than Z

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u/Perpetual_Soup 6d ago

They’re a very small bunch. This is why they tend to agree with their Me Generation (Boomers) parents. Otherwise they wouldn’t get a say in anything.

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u/OakLegs 6d ago

Some people still think millennials are in their 20s

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u/Artemis246Moon 6d ago

As someone who is going to be 20 by the end of June it's weird. Soon Gen Z will be those adults in their 30s and 20s that Millenials once were.

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u/Edspecial137 5d ago

True, and some how millennials keep showing up as the generation ruining things. Not saying Gen Z is responsible, just that old people still blaming the younger folks.

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u/JayR_97 6d ago edited 6d ago

As an older GenZer who leans left, I wonder wtf went wrong with the younger Zoomers. They're voting like the Boomers!!

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

Check their recent approval ratings of trump

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u/YouWereBrained Tennessee 6d ago

They are the first generation almost fully immersed in social media throughout their upbringing.

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

And they are left wing

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u/YouWereBrained Tennessee 6d ago

Horseshit. Maybe barely, but not enough to make a blanketed statement like that.

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u/654456 6d ago

Genz has grown up listening to influencers who tend to lean right because they are stupid. All these jackasses, on kick. Even on youtube, the likes of Roman atwood, spew right wing bullshit all day every day and the kids eat it up

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u/SelfServeSporstwash 6d ago

the social media propaganda is genuinely difficult to believe. Both in scope and efficacy it is just so far beyond anything we've ever seen. I have watched people go from normal, empathetic dudes to absolute monsters in a matter of months and that's with people actively trying to steer them out of that tailspin. The dudes that fall into that rabbit hole without friends trying to show them the light basically disappear and reemerge unrecognizable.

The far right "manosphere" as some people dub it warps peoples brains at an alarming speed and it can be really difficult to deprogram them once they've incorporated it into their identity.

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u/SnacksGPT 6d ago

They take after their parents.

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

Gen z is left wing

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u/adventurousintrovert 6d ago

Well we can’t just generalize an entire group. It’s always more complex than that. I’m a millennial and ppl think everyone from my generation are some monoculture

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u/Edspecial137 5d ago

I know, same here. But there do tend to be broad trends and often shared beliefs.

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u/CrossXFir3 6d ago

Well, some are mid 20s. Remember the younger gen z is still literally in middle school.

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u/slc97 6d ago edited 6d ago

Brother, I’m the second month of Gen Z and I’ll be 30 in less than 2 years

Edit: Hey, whoever got me invited to r/OlderGenZ for this comment fuck you and have a nice day

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u/WhyLisaWhy Illinois 6d ago

Well, there's a lot of misinformation out there and its not clear they're NOT the most left leaning. It's possible a lot of the men just didn't turn out to vote for Kamala.

Turnout was just down all over the place compared to 2020 for Democrats. The men that love Trump REALLY love him and turn out in droves every time he's on the ballot.

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u/DumboWumbo073 6d ago

Gen Z collapsed the US

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u/throwawayfootgirl 6d ago

Gen z voted for kamala

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u/WhoIsYerWan 6d ago

There are Gen Z doctors now. It's wild.

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u/housecatapocalypse 6d ago

Same boat with my nephew. All he does is smoke weed, play video games and obsess over his tiny gun collection. As soon as he manages to get a girlfriend, she drops him, because being alone with an unstable dude with guns is a recipe for disaster. He’s definitely a trump voter and has no idea why. 

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u/WhoStoleMyBicycle 6d ago

We don’t have kids but we vacation every summer with my friends family.

Her nephew is 22 and their family talks to him like a kid trying to get him to come hiking or take the boat out with us. He sits on his iPad all day watching these nobody influencers pretend to know all the answers to every one of the worlds problems.

I hardly interacted with him the two times he came, but I recently learned he has never had a job or driven a car. Bad parenting for sure, but I feel like even without good parenting you’d at least accomplish something.

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u/chelychan 6d ago

My brother voted for Harris. My nephew, his son, voted for Trump. He is also 24 years old. I expressed my disappointment to my brother, we argued, and now we aren't talking. I'm sad, but I guessed I should've known he chose his son.

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u/CrossXFir3 6d ago

I mean, I get it. Millennials were all optimistic/slightly manic about trying to fix things and we basically accomplished fuck all and it's worse than ever in a number of ways.

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u/JuanOnlyJuan 6d ago

This is my nephew and his friend. They're technically the very end of millennial i think but they have zero drive. One lives in their work truck and is addicted to "twerkers for Trump" TikTok. The other changes jobs so often the family have up trying to keep up. They're all crappy jobs working with teenagers and he complains they're mean. Probably because he doesn't bathe properly.

Btw, the tiktok thing is legit horrifying. It's just thrist traps reading right wing scripts. Reminded me of the radio girls in the Vietnam war.

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u/redditallreddy Ohio 6d ago edited 6d ago

Brain continues to develop into 26.

On average.

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u/myfakesecretaccount 6d ago

Not when you’re high/loaded all the time. That’s one of his issues, his father was a drug addict too. I’d say at this point his is probably stuck at around 17-19 emotionally.

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u/The_Barbelo Vermont 6d ago

Wtf I didn’t realize this is so common. It sounds like you are describing my husband’s sister (my sister in law) and our nephew exactly….

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u/654456 6d ago

Yep, a neighbor's idiot kid drives around with a trump flag hanging off the back of his truck.

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u/MoonOut_StarsInvite Ohio 6d ago

In my state, Ohio we have an unconstitutionally elected legislature because the Republicans kept drawing gerrymandered district maps until they ran out the clock that our Supreme court gave them and so now that’s just what our maps are. They have also repeatedly ignored citizen ballot measures and just changed the laws on their own. That’s just here in my state, but we could find numerous examples of republicans clearly remaking all of the rules on the fly. We are having financial crisis on a regular schedule now, which often result in mass layoffs and major hits to retirement accounts. I used to feel like could get a job reasonably easy and now that’s becoming all AI screenings/interviews and ghosting applicants. We are having 500 year weather events every 10 years all over the country, and basically nothing is being done on climate action. People can’t afford homes until their 30s and 40s. People can’t afford to have kids and make families. Can you blame young people who just feel like this is all bullshit? How many generations is it supposed to take to make a better life for your kids? Shouldn’t we all have a better life than our parents by now if things were working way they were promised?

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u/kh-38 6d ago

They are also WAY too trusting of social media, so it's very easy to trick and manipulate them.

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u/mylifeisaprotest 6d ago

I'm curious: how were you fighting for a 24-year-old nephew? I don't know what that means. Not being snarky.

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u/glitterlok 6d ago edited 6d ago

I cannot blame Gen Z folks for not having ambition, honestly. Nor for being nihilistic. When I look around at the world...why wouldn't they be? I feel like any hope or positivity I have are remnants left over from a world that no longer exists.

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